Tips for guys who come on too strong
Guys, if you're always getting rejected by women, the problem might be your approach. So here are six tips to help you fine-tune your pickup technique...
#1.) Pay Attention To Her Signals. Look for signals like short responses, crossed arms, and a lack of eye contact to let you know whether or not she's interested. And if she's NOT, more attention WON'T change her mind.
#2.) Talk to Your Friends. Your friends will be the first to notice when you're sliding off the rails, and they'll have no problem calling you out on it. So if you're on the fence about whether a woman is into you, ask your buddies.
#3.) Be Patient. Sending a casual and funny email or text every couple of days is better than bombarding her. Take your cue from how often she contacts YOU.
#4.) Keep It Simple. If you just HAVE to do something special for her, keep it simple . . . think flowers rather than a shout-out on the Jumbotron.
#5.) Ask Yourself What You're Really After. Are you pursuing this girl because you feel like you guys might have some real chemistry . . . or are you just interested because she's playing hard-to-get?
#6.) Be Prepared To Move On. If she's not feeling it . . . even after you've been out a few times . . . it's best to just cut your losses and move on.