I listen to your show every morning and I really feel for those whom you catch cheating. Especialy today, I dont care what the guy is not doin for her the answer is not CHEAT. Why does she just leave him then she just wants her cake and eat it too. If she is not happy deal with it, either leave him or work on it. I dont think there is any excuse for cheating. Trust me i am on the other side and it is the worst thing a person could do to another. Also i think cheaters should pay for it, if she leaves for the other guy she will go after her husband for money and she will probably get it, there should be a penalty for cheaters. Thats my opinion!!! I do like the fact that she got caught and on the radio! She cant deny it! Love it!

I can see Mike's point but on the other hand I can see Deena's too. Both parties are guilty on this one. Mike should have become suspicious the first time she went out. There does not have to be an inquistion but a little conversation asking where did you go is in order. Mike seemed happy to let her go out and she went out and then stayed out. Still she did it several times before Mike got worried about it. But still no questions! Deena, I can see how you felt but you did go overboard and break your marriagel vows. You both sound like real nice people and I hate to see this end the marriage. There was somethign there back when you got married. You just have to find that common ground again. Mike stop playing the computer games and pay a littte attention to Deena. Deena stay home at talk to your husband. Maybe throw the PS3 out!

My comment to Mike- I feel bad what happened to you. But Mike, women are confusing- sometimes they want a bad ass and sometimes they want a sensitive man and sometimes we don't know what we want. But you know what? Mike you need to man up and own that pussy.

I love Mad Dog & Maura, but I hate this show segment. I found out 2 and a half years ago my husband was cheating on me. It was awful. I can't imagine having that discovery played out live on the radio. I absolutely feel Mike's pain and humiliation. My husband and I are still together, but it's taken a huge amount of therapy and continues to challenge us from time to time... Mike will never forget what Deena has done, and he may never be able to forgive her, but if they do decide they want to work things out, they both need to own up to what they were both NOT giving to the relationship. Don't get me wrong - there is absolutely no excuse for what Deena has done, and she absolutely owns the majority of the blame in this situation. But she had to be missing something or she wouldn't have strayed. I'm not blaming Mike for a second, but if he ultimately decides he wants to try to fix things with her, he will need to look at himself and his role in the relationship to figure out what he needs to do differently if they are ever going to work things out in the long term. For me, my husband had to do most of the changing and carries the lion's share of the guilt, but I realized through our healing process (which is still ongoing nearly three years later!) that I also needed to change. I hope Mike gets whatever he wants to get from his relationship with Deena going forward - if he wants to make it work, I hope for his sake they do, but if he decides to walk away from it all, I wouldn't blame him for a second. One thing that wasn't shared was whether Mike & Deena have kids... I hope not, because that will make it much tougher on all involved, especially the kids. In my case, we do have children, and while I didn't stay in the relationship because of the kids or strictly for the children, I was certainly willing to try much harder to repair our relationship because we have children. I relive the moment I found out over and over again, and trust is incredibly difficult, but at some point along the way, I made a conscious decision to give my husband another chance, and that's something we continue to work on today. My heart goes out to Mike and the pain he must be feeling... I hope he can come out of this situation and find happiness again. Whether that's with or without Deena will be up to Mike and Mike alone, and no one should ever judge him for whatever he chooses to do. Mike, I wish you all the best of luck, and much strength in the coming weeks and months.... having been there myself, I know you'll need it.

Mike is a jerk, I've seen how my kids get so tuned out when they are gaming, I hate it. But if are doing this instead of spending quality time with a person who seemed to want you pay attention to her and you showed no interest, she did what she felt she had to and that was find some one who payed some attention to her. Then you totally missed the signs like the new intimate experiences...bad on you

I agree that both of them are to blame for the demise of their relationship. Mike should have been more attentive. Guys, it's simple: If you ignore us, WE WILL GO ELSEWHERE to get the required attention we need in a relationship. And everyone knows what kind of attention I'm talking about. However some girls, like Deena, go about it the wrong way, aka cheating. She should have been mature and talked it out with Mike, and if that didn't work, then leave him. I don't condone cheating, however, I can see why she did it. Like I said, she should've been more mature about the situation. The fact that they can't communicate with each other is a big red flag all on it's own.