Mike has hit bottom... He reached out to us to find out if his wife Deena is being faithful.

Posted By: The Breakfast Show · 1/27/2012 9:23:00 AM

A little back story here.... Mike reached out to us and is a self-proclaimed gamer. He says he uses it to unwind at night. Fair enough.

He also told us that his wife has started going out A LOT. Sometimes she doesn't come home after partying with her friends.

So after reminding him of other options, we call Deena.

 

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  1. asdfjkl; posted on 01/27/2012 09:45 AM
    Bitch be crazy. Mike, if you are smart, you lawyer up now.
    1. Barney posted on 02/05/2012 12:56 AM
      @asdfjkl; Suit up! bc its gonna be Legendary!

      Since this is recorded and she admitted she was unfaithful she ain't going to get a penny outta of him after the divorce. =)
  2. Anna MariaM posted on 01/27/2012 09:52 AM
    I'm sorry Mike but I have to agree with Deena 100% on this one. You are very selfish in picking your video games over your own wife. She felt lonely in her life and needed someone in her life who would pay attention to her (i.e. Barry). I honestly would do the same thing.

    Grow up Mike and develop some balls. You are to blame in this one.
    1. MayD posted on 01/27/2012 06:02 PM
      @Anna MariaM Wow ! You must be as shallow as she is ! She came across as the insatiable bitch who doesnt have the balls to talk about her problems to her husband. Looks like she just needed an excuse to fool around and then had the audacity to blame him for everything !! So a guy can't have an outlet except his wife ? Grow up ! At least he wasn't screwing someone !
    2. Bryan posted on 01/28/2012 09:06 AM
      @Anna MariaM Really?? How can you even justify what she did?? The right thing for her to do was to talk to him about it. If that didn't work and she couldn't take it anymore, then leave him! At least then it was all on him for not trying to work things out with her. What's wrong with people these days...wow!
  3. Kate Huber posted on 01/27/2012 10:27 AM
    Listening to this piece this morning made me really sad. I really hope they can get the help they need to save their marriage. I'm glad support is being provided to them.
  4. Maria posted on 01/27/2012 11:01 AM
    I listen to your show every morning and I really feel for those whom you catch cheating. Especialy today, I dont care what the guy is not doin for her the answer is not CHEAT. Why does she just leave him then she just wants her cake and eat it too. If she is not happy deal with it, either leave him or work on it. I dont think there is any excuse for cheating. Trust me i am on the other side and it is the worst thing a person could do to another. Also i think cheaters should pay for it, if she leaves for the other guy she will go after her husband for money and she will probably get it, there should be a penalty for cheaters. Thats my opinion!!! I do like the fact that she got caught and on the radio! She cant deny it! Love it!
  5. Chris posted on 01/27/2012 11:37 AM
    Anna, how can you blame Mike? If someone has an issue in a marriage they need to discuss it. Running off to "hook up" when you're married really shows how serious she was about her wedding vows. If you're willing to do that behind the back of your spouse then you should have the balls to discuss things before getting to that stage. If you're not happy in your marriage then leave. Have some respect for the person you married and confront them before running to get some "on the side". It's irrelevant if it's a man or woman, the situation is the same. People that hook up behind their spouses don't have the balls to move on and that's why they do it. They can't survive on their own.
  6. Monty posted on 01/27/2012 01:33 PM
    I can see Mike's point but on the other hand I can see Deena's too. Both parties are guilty on this one. Mike should have become suspicious the first time she went out. There does not have to be an inquistion but a little conversation asking where did you go is in order. Mike seemed happy to let her go out and she went out and then stayed out. Still she did it several times before Mike got worried about it. But still no questions! Deena, I can see how you felt but you did go overboard and break your marriagel vows. You both sound like real nice people and I hate to see this end the marriage. There was somethign there back when you got married. You just have to find that common ground again. Mike stop playing the computer games and pay a littte attention to Deena. Deena stay home at talk to your husband. Maybe throw the PS3 out!
  7. Ashlie C posted on 01/27/2012 04:54 PM
    Guys play video games.... That's what they do. After a long day it completely makes sense... After a long day i shop, or i go out with friends that are girls. I don't find any willing guy to give me attention especially when you have a caring loving HUSBAND at home. Mike I am so sorry that this woman was so selfish.
    and Deena! if you get that bored so easily or are in this dyer need for attention maybe you should have thought about your wedding vows. Maybe you should have ended this marriage before trying to find satisfaction somewhere else...
  8. Jessica Sing posted on 01/27/2012 06:43 PM
    My comment to Mike- I feel bad what happened to you. But Mike, women are confusing- sometimes they want a bad ass and sometimes they want a sensitive man and sometimes we don't know what we want. But you know what? Mike you need to man up and own that pussy.
  9. IainP posted on 01/27/2012 11:18 PM
    Relationships are 50/50. I would say Mike owns some of the problems for not being more attentive to his relationship and spending too much time with his video game. Deena wears half - if she was not happy then she should have spoken up.

    My question is what's with Deena's friends? Either they helped cover it up, encourge it, or maybe even others are participating in extramarital relations. I would love to hear a follow up from them? And what about Barry? Is he married?
  10. Been There Too, Mike posted on 01/27/2012 11:21 PM
    I love Mad Dog & Maura, but I hate this show segment. I found out 2 and a half years ago my husband was cheating on me. It was awful. I can't imagine having that discovery played out live on the radio. I absolutely feel Mike's pain and humiliation. My husband and I are still together, but it's taken a huge amount of therapy and continues to challenge us from time to time... Mike will never forget what Deena has done, and he may never be able to forgive her, but if they do decide they want to work things out, they both need to own up to what they were both NOT giving to the relationship. Don't get me wrong - there is absolutely no excuse for what Deena has done, and she absolutely owns the majority of the blame in this situation. But she had to be missing something or she wouldn't have strayed. I'm not blaming Mike for a second, but if he ultimately decides he wants to try to fix things with her, he will need to look at himself and his role in the relationship to figure out what he needs to do differently if they are ever going to work things out in the long term. For me, my husband had to do most of the changing and carries the lion's share of the guilt, but I realized through our healing process (which is still ongoing nearly three years later!) that I also needed to change. I hope Mike gets whatever he wants to get from his relationship with Deena going forward - if he wants to make it work, I hope for his sake they do, but if he decides to walk away from it all, I wouldn't blame him for a second. One thing that wasn't shared was whether Mike & Deena have kids... I hope not, because that will make it much tougher on all involved, especially the kids. In my case, we do have children, and while I didn't stay in the relationship because of the kids or strictly for the children, I was certainly willing to try much harder to repair our relationship because we have children. I relive the moment I found out over and over again, and trust is incredibly difficult, but at some point along the way, I made a conscious decision to give my husband another chance, and that's something we continue to work on today. My heart goes out to Mike and the pain he must be feeling... I hope he can come out of this situation and find happiness again. Whether that's with or without Deena will be up to Mike and Mike alone, and no one should ever judge him for whatever he chooses to do. Mike, I wish you all the best of luck, and much strength in the coming weeks and months.... having been there myself, I know you'll need it.
  11. Laura posted on 01/29/2012 09:54 AM
    I love this segment of the show. It can act as a wake up call for other couples. I always think that the person who is potentially being cheated on is ready for some revenge. Becauseas my 13 year old says if you try to fight fire with fire somebody always gets burned. I'm glad you offer post fallout assistance.
  12. Mike D posted on 01/30/2012 12:03 AM
    Mike is a jerk, I've seen how my kids get so tuned out when they are gaming, I hate it. But if are doing this instead of spending quality time with a person who seemed to want you pay attention to her and you showed no interest, she did what she felt she had to and that was find some one who payed some attention to her. Then you totally missed the signs like the new intimate experiences...bad on you
  13. Ezy Tavares posted on 01/30/2012 08:26 PM
    First I want to say you guys are the best radio station and its always a pleasure to spend the day with you.
    It does not give Deena the right to go out and cheat on her husband because he games. There is something called communication and addressing what bothers her in their marriage. I think she just uses the excuse that he doesnt pay attention to her and is more interested in gaming then her. It does not give her the right to sleep with another man when clearly she has a husband. People like this have no respect for anyone and clearly are very selfish.
    I wish Mike all the Best in his decision.
  14. Nat posted on 02/02/2012 03:51 PM
    I agree that both of them are to blame for the demise of their relationship. Mike should have been more attentive. Guys, it's simple: If you ignore us, WE WILL GO ELSEWHERE to get the required attention we need in a relationship. And everyone knows what kind of attention I'm talking about. However some girls, like Deena, go about it the wrong way, aka cheating. She should have been mature and talked it out with Mike, and if that didn't work, then leave him. I don't condone cheating, however, I can see why she did it. Like I said, she should've been more mature about the situation. The fact that they can't communicate with each other is a big red flag all on it's own.
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