Was Andrea's husband Bryan cheating?

Posted By: The Breakfast Show · 1/13/2012 9:05:00 AM

Andrea called us with concerns that something wasn't right with her husband. Her first clue was how hot and cold he was when it came to their sex life.

She asked us if we could help her get to the bottom of it, and we did.

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  1. Marta posted on 01/13/2012 09:23 AM
    Wow...this phone call was quite disturbing to say the least! I personally felt terrible for Andrea, as I can't imagine what she may have been feeling at that moment. The fact that her husband got caught and immediately started to blame her for his actions...was just unbelievable. I hope that she does exactly what she said...I hope she takes her little baby and moves on. No one should continue such an unhealthy relationship. Good luck and all the best to her and her baby!
  2. Trish posted on 01/13/2012 09:40 AM
    As Andrea's world began to unravel on the radio, I could not hope but wonder, what if any supports the station has in place for this woman. There is a moral & social responsibility to follow up with her if you are to engage in such activities.
  3. Marla posted on 01/13/2012 09:41 AM
    Hello,
    OMG !!! I just have to say what a TARD!!!! Your busted buddy!
    I just heard the cold call. Andrea needs to be the smarter one. Tell her not to leave the house. He needs to be kicked out. Take all that belongs to him and throw it out on the front lawn. Change the locks and don't let him back in. Take it from someone who knows the mistakes she made in this same situation. If he tries to get back in call the police. Trust me. You need to be one step ahead of assholes like that.
    1. JClarke posted on 01/13/2012 05:45 PM
  4. Listener posted on 01/13/2012 09:51 AM
    All i have to say is that "man" is a loser! First he cheats on his wife then gets mad at her for "setting him up" not to mention how lame he is that he actually said "I CARRY THIS MARRIAGE" well buddy, i think you wife did as she was the one who reached out and had to FIND OUT that you were cheating this way... he should have been a damn man and told his wife before havingthe affair. To Maranda, YOUR A HOME WRECKING woman and hopefully you can enjoy a happy life with this loser.. i am sure in a few years he will get bored of the "same old routine" and mess around on you!

    UGH I feel so bad for Andrea and her son! Hopefully that little boy can learn how NOT to be a man and how to be a real man from a NEW DADDY!
  5. NYListener posted on 01/13/2012 10:14 AM
    In fairness to the Miranda woman, this dirtball probably didnt even tell her he is married. If he did, then yeah shame on her too.

    This guys is straight up retarded and completely morally bankrupt. You have a young wife who cares about your relationship and a new child. You think you are "carrying" the relationship? How, by getting your rocks off with another woman. Dude, man up!

    Here is the shocker ...I am a guy and Im saying this.
  6. Tanya posted on 01/13/2012 10:53 AM
    awkwardddddd...
  7. Debbie posted on 01/13/2012 11:13 AM
    I agree with Trish below - you can't just say "Did you get your question answered Andrea?" and then hang up - this woman is clearly depressed, or has post-partum depression if all she has to talk about with her hubby is reality shows. Andrea, it takes TWO to fight, break up, or anything!!! I'm not saying what your husband is doing is OK, because it's not, but my husband and I have 3 kids, and have been to counselling many times over the years, and marriage takes work!!! What we've learned in counselling is that we have to tend to our own garden as a couple first, and then the kids, and what I tell my friends that are in relationships is that if you don't tend to your needs as a married couple, there IS no marriage!!!! Each person has to look honestly at themselves; are they taking care of themselves, are they making an effort with maintaining their physical and mental health, dressing nicely each day, etc....it is EASY to walk away - DON'T!!! You can't make a rational decision when you're feeling irrational; and it's not just you to think about anymore...is he having an emotional affair or a physical one? We don't know - and it's none of our business - but you have to live with this - get counselling NOW and start there.....Good luck, and God Bless you both....l.
  8. Maggie posted on 01/13/2012 04:39 PM This comment was edited by a moderator at 05:25 PM on 01/13/2012
    OMG! This situation this morning was very very uncomfortable.

    And for Andrea - I hope you didn't leave your house. Kick his ass right out the door!!!
  9. AnneC posted on 01/13/2012 05:15 PM This comment was edited by a moderator at 05:24 PM on 01/13/2012
    As I was driving and listening, I was shocked when Bryan was outed live on the radio ~ I felt very badly for Andrea... Bryan was cheating with the 'long lunches' that were worthy of 3 dozen red roses ... Emotionl or physical or both... He was cheating on his wife AND baby. The relationship is broken and either they BOTH decide to fix it or they should part ways for the Baby's sake.
  10. Lindsay posted on 01/13/2012 05:18 PM This comment was edited by a moderator at 05:23 PM on 01/13/2012
    Shock! That is the best word to sum this situation up! I agree that Andrea needs some support put in place. You could tell what a jerk he was anyway by him turning it around on her. Good for you Andrea! We are behind you getting to a healthier place! Bryan you are a scumbag that has a 1 year old child! Life slows down with kids sometimes. You are so SELFISH!
  11. JClarke posted on 01/13/2012 05:48 PM
    Unfortunately I heard this call...she needs to realize how much better off she is. The fact that he tried to turn it around on her proves what a snake he is. How sad it is now but things will only get better. I spent the better years of my life with a cheater and the leopard never changes his spots...he cheated constantly and each time tried to turn it on me. Now in my fourties I can finally say that I have found real love and happiness...Andrea life will get better...it hurts now but in time you'll see what a favor he and this radio station did for you. My heart goes out to you.
  12. Mike posted on 01/14/2012 11:18 AM This comment was edited by a moderator at 07:52 PM on 01/15/2012
    I didn't hear about this call until this morning and my heart goes out to this young lady.

    As a father of a 1 year old, I know first hand that life gets a hundredfold more difficult. Both my wife and I are used to having a full social calendar, sports, travel and high profile careers. I always thought that relationships would organically grow, but have learned over the years that it takes work to continually make it better. We don't engage in the same things anymore, but it is because we have something new and better in our lives. It angers me that someone who vowed that he would devote his life to her is "tired" of their life together. That is a coward's way out.

    This fellow Brian did his wife a great disservice. He clearly does not appear interested in making it work and wants to place the blame somewhere else. I hope Andrea has the necessary resources to stand by her resolve and leave this self-centred jerk, and a support network to get her and her child through this terrible time.
  13. Laura W posted on 01/14/2012 11:03 PM
    It was a predictable outcome based on Andrea's gut feeling, women know these things, whether they choose to ignore it or address it. Inside they know. And it is also predicatable that Bryan blamed her and took no responsbility for his actions. Guys that behave that way to cheat in the first place will always put the blame on someone else, not themselves. It would be interesting to check in with Miranda and see how she feels about being a participant in being a home wrecker with a baby involved. Is the sex really worth the consequences? Maybe Miranda was a willing participant, maybe not, but it sure is a juicy story. God promised women that they would be able to find good men in all four corners of the earth, then went and made the Earth round.
  14. sumar posted on 01/14/2012 11:55 PM
    OMG is right. ! I'm not surprised that this scumbag would try to turn it around on Andrea ...it's because he got CAUGHT !!!!...YOU LOSER...just another case of NOT BEING MAN ENOUGH to take ownership for his actions.....I KNOW THE KIND....
    I felt soooooo badly for Andrea and agree with others who commented about NOT leaving the house but to have him wonder where he's going to live after he discusses it OVER A L O N G lunch with Miranda.....besides, has anyone wondered about Mirandas ass being kicked to the curb too if her husband (if she's married) finds out as well? I suppose they'll be doing a lot of fast food drive-thrus eating in their vehicle looking at the roses and taking as LLLOOONNGG as they like to finish their meal. WHAT A LOSER....Im sure Andrea will find someone who is deserving of her love and her baby. as for Brian.....I HOPE AND PRAY YOU LOSE EVERYTHING.....you irresponsible, self-centered, selfish, manipulating loser...trying to insult your wife's intelligence....WOW....I hope Andrea doesn't take him back...The wolf will lose his fur but never his habit...He'll do it AGAIN ANDREA.....go forward as difficult as that may be and don't let his sorry ass manipulate his way back...OHHHHH he'\ll try......
  15. Debra posted on 01/16/2012 07:49 AM
    I just heard the update this morning, OMG I feel for this girl. I truly hope she is ok and will get some help. I feel for her! :(
    Keep us posted please!
  16. crocgirl posted on 01/17/2012 12:04 AM
    I was yelling at the radio, shocked by Brian's selfishness + defensiveness, but cheering Andrea on. GF, your gut was right, trust it!
    It was painful to hear the hurt in her voice, but amazing to hear her get mad and stand up for herself!
    Crappy! Thrown under the bus just because her focus is now narrowed to caring for their small child.
    Andrea, its sad to discover this, but better to find out early on. Less time, money and heartache for you and your child(ren), down the road.
    Take care of YOU and your beautiful baby, and surround yourself with people that genuinely care for you.
  17. Amanda posted on 01/20/2012 10:31 AM
    Hi! I just wanted to comment on this whole "Is my husband cheating thing" If a woman even thinks for the least that her husband is cheating, well, he is! Unfortunatly, I was once "the other woman" for 6 years, now, I wasnt the one married, nor in a relationship, but I have heard it all, made it up and heard the lies. For example, he was at my house all day instead of working, when it was time for him to leave, he rubber dirt on his pants and shirt to make it look like he was. Now Im married with a child, to a very commited husband, and so is myself, I dont regret it, I know that Ill have to make up for some really heavy things, because being a wife now, And loving my husband as much as I do, I couldnt ever imagine what she went through.
    1. KK1983 posted on 03/02/2012 09:13 AM
      @Amanda I am so glad Im single!!! After hearing this, this is the reason why I dont trust men, gutless wonder... Andrea is better off without this loser. She will find someone amazing!!!
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